Restrictions at 26

I just turned 26 last Feb 1. Lately, my parents were imposing restrictions that I go home early, or not stay at my boyfriend's house on Saturdays. I have rest days on weekends, and saturday is the only time I spend with my boyfriend unless he sees me after work, which happens now very rarely.

I can say that my parents had brought me up too well. I still have curfews when coming home at night. All the places I go, or major decisions I make, they still have a say on it.

I appreciate that they are always after my welfare. I know that too well. I do not have anything against it. But what I do not want is the feeling of control. I know I am of the right age already, and I can already make decisions of what I want in my life. I know my limits. I know I will regret things if I do something wrong.

Hopefully, they'll be more trusting and give me a little bit of freedom I need. It will give me room for growth. I hope they'll understand that I already know what will make me happy.

I just want to make it clear that I love my parents so much, and I will always be their little daughter all my life.

Comments

TINTIN latoja said…
talk to them bes :) para alam din nila kung ano ang nararamdaman mo :)
March 3, 2011 at 1:26 PM
Dubi Wolf said…
bes, you know sometimes, there's no winning in arguing. :P
March 3, 2011 at 9:12 PM
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